“I have heard it said that the first ingredient of success is to dream a great dream.” John A. Appleman
How often do
you dream or aspire? What do you dream of? Why do people struggle to
act upon their dreams? Is it fear of failure, insecurity in their
abilities or chalk it up to wishful thinking that holds them back?
These are questions that my clients ask me all the time. In return I
offer, “Isn’t it amazing how people only dream of greatness?” I have never heard of anyone dreaming
of failure or aspiring to be unsuccessful. Failure does not play any
part in dreaming. It is the dreamer that instills failure, not the
dream. I have read of many very successful dreamers that failed
numerous times before they experienced success. The difference is that
failure was not going to end their dreams only motivate them to dream
bigger.
Many of you fail to seek
your purpose in life and you should. You dream and then follow it up
with a list of all the reasons why the dream is unachievable. You fill
your life with excuses and “I can’t.” Many great companies were
conceived from a dream, nurtured in a garage or basement and grew to be
traded on the New York Stock Exchange. Why not you? Why not your
dream? The only true limits you experience in life are those you create
or those you allow others to impose upon you. If you can dream it,
you can do it!
“Sometimes when
we read the words of those who have been more than conquerors, we feel
almost despondent. I feel that I shall never be like that. But they won
through step-by-step by little bits of wills, little denials of self,
little inward victories by faithfulness, and in very little things. They
became what they are. No one sees these little hidden steps. They only
see the accomplishment, but even so, those small steps were taken. There
is no sudden triumph, no spiritual maturity. That is the work of the
moment.”
Amy Carmichael quoted in: Tim Hansel, Holy Sweat, 1987,
Word Books Publisher, p. 130.
Amy Carmichael quoted in: Tim Hansel, Holy Sweat, 1987,
Word Books Publisher, p. 130.
Dreaming
is the easy part. Acting on the dream is harder. Recognize that a
dream is a journey. On the simplest level, it takes commitment, time,
desire, and courage. But rarely is something great easily realized.
In
Bruce Wilkinson’s book, “The DreamGiver,” he tells the story of a man
named Anybody. Anybody has a great dream, but struggles to break free
of his comfort zone and push toward his dream. One afternoon he draws
the courage and begins to tell others of his dream. They laugh at him,
tell him to stop being foolish and forget about his dreams. “Stop
kidding yourself, you can’t do it,” they would remind him. These “dream
bullies” make every effort to push him back to mediocrity. Do not get
caught in this trap. I am here today to tell you that you CAN do it.
How
do I know that this is possible? I have done it. A few years ago, I
decided that I was going to step out in faith, believe in myself and
God’s purpose for my life. I was going to follow my dream. I was in a
similar place as “Anybody.” I was comfortable but unhappy. I, too,
dreamed a greater dream.
When I
came to the realization that I wanted more out of life, I created a
motivational phrase to keep me going when I felt challenged. “If you
can dream it, you can do it!” I made it my life’s mission statement.
No longer was I going to stand in the way of my dreams or was I going to
let anyone else either.
Many
people questioned my decisions and looking back now I recognize why; my
dreams impacted them. I challenged their comfort zones. They feared my
success because of the implications that it had on their lives. They
worried that they would lose their partner in pity or were so locked
into mediocrity and their comfort zones that it was impossible for them
to imagine my success. They viewed the process or decision with great
skepticism. Today, my dream is evolving, but the dream is still very
much alive. Has it been easy? No. Has it been rewarding? Yes. Will
someday I realize my dream? Definitely.
I
am here today to challenge you to reach for your dream. Do not be
afraid to dream. If you can dream it, you can do it! Many of the
people that impacted history came from humble beginnings. We can easily
look to the Bible to discover humble greatness. Moses immediately
comes to mind. He stuttered and God chose him to speak to Pharaoh. He
felt inadequate and unable to achieve the greatness God had laid before
him. God often chooses ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary
things.
He said to God, “Who am I
that I should go to Pharaoh, and that I should bring the children of
Israel?” Exodus 3:11. Later in Exodus 4:10, he said, “I am not
eloquent, neither before or since you have spoken to me, but I am slow
of speech and slow of tongue.” Simply, please do not take me out of my
comfort zone. I appreciate you thinking of me, but this might be a
little bigger than I can handle. He failed to see the dream because he
was focused on the obstacles.
What
about David. When his great army cowered before the giant Goliath, he
stood up, grabbed his dream of freedom and through a stone in the
direction of greatness. He later became a great King. What if that
monumental day, he chose not to pick up the stone?
Where
would the world be if they had chosen to turn away from a dream? What
would have become of them if they chose to listen to all of the reasons
“why not,” instead of “why not me?” Where will you be when you realize
what might have been?
What stone
might you throw that could change your life? Get focused and make a
commitment. Integrate your dreams into your daily life. Many coaches
promote goal setting, as do I. I encourage my clients to list their
goals and strategically place them in areas where they can be frequently
reminded of the goals. I created a wristband with the embossed phrase;
Dream It – Do It. I look at it all the time. It reminds me of the
mission and helps keep things in perspective. If you would like to
learn more about the “Dream It – Do It” wristband, visit my website.
“Those who lose dreaming are lost.”
Unknown
Unknown
Dreaming is recognizing
and embracing the potential for greatness and seeking it in all areas of
your life. Believe in your dreams and your ability to accomplish them.
Keep your dreams in front of you. Never forget, if you can dream it,
you can do it!
Elite Coaching Alliance 2005
Anthony Mullins is the President and Coach for The Elite Coaching Alliance. He specializes in personal, and leadership, christian based coaching. He is based in Atlanta, Georgia and is a highly sought after speaker and facilitator. He is also the author of an upcoming e-book "Finding Fulfillment in an Unfulfilling World." He can be contacted by phone at 770.587.3545 or by visiting his website http://www.elitecoachingalliance.com
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